How to love her
some suggestions
A little tenderness goes a long way
Be kind
Be persistently consistent with your time and efforts
Remain curious about her — it won’t kill you, and she will feel touched by your intrigue in her layers
Welcome her wild in, don’t try to tame it
Reach for her hand whenever chanced( i think this is underrated intimacy), if done as you cross the street she will be warmed by your gesture of protection and feel safe in your hands — she will smile from her eyes
Seek her friendship — confide in her
Let your actions show her that she is your choice not an option — never that
Make her a priority. Put. Love. First.
Listen to her, make it your mission to understand then OVERstand
Don’t ever make her compete for your heart — your affections
Give her your heart freely to keep
Encourage her
Place your hand on the small of her back when she’s vulnerable — let her know, you’ve got her
Be empathetic and honest
Love her in the light and the dark. Love her out of sight. Wherever you may be — love her still
Love her only
Come to her when you’re ready to meet her where she is in life — then evolve together
Love her a little something like this — and you will start a fire not even a tsunami can put out
Dear reader,
admittedly, I’m not claiming all of these suggestions speak for every woman. Nope, they are reflections of some personal preferences of mine and echoes from women i have known along the way. But If any of them resonate, then kindly highlight, share or clap for them.
Disclaimer: The title of this piece was taken from a prompt provided by GG Renee Hill with her #30Layers30Days writing challenge
