Sam, you are most definitely my brother from another on this one. I am exactly like this, I would love to be able to emphasis the ‘done’ — but the struggle is so very real on that. I’ve re-washed dishes that were ‘done’ many a time… Lmao. I commend your efforts to try to appreciate your partners ‘done’, I hope I can do the same one day. Thank you for sharing this 🌻