Us humans being exhausting again, ugh…folks feel very entitled to knowledge of your personal business…(us Writers will come up against this BS if we share anything personal, that is apparently the green light …and opening the season to access all areas in some peoples eyes) but not every question needs to be quantified with an answer. There is a fine line between respectful curiosity and entitlement to peoples details. I don’t know, like you said Jeff, if it doesn’t hurt someone else …just do you and folks just have to suck it and find some business of their own to mind.